Men
The Reasons Why Women Avoid Nice Guys
Women claim to seek a man who is emotional, sensitive, and intimate. Despite this, women continue to want bad boys, those that are arrogant, self-absorbed and shun all forms of closeness as if they were infectious diseases. A woman’s desire for a guy is contradictory. Their hearts are pulled to the guy who ignites their passion, even though they’re always on the hunt for the incredibly lovely, loving guy who will make an excellent companion. The reasons why women avoid nice guys are complicated. But we’ll do our best in this article o break it down to keep it as short and sweet as possible.
Here are five reasons why good males aren’t attractive to women:
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Nice guys have a desperate odor.
They come on too hard and don’t understand. If a guy expresses interest in a girl and she declines, he must either accept her as a friend or go on. They’re the males that the girls afterward tell their friends about. “What he just said last night astounds me.”
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Women believe they cannot improve.
A reader sometimes inquires as to why ladies are drawn to nasty males. To some extent, this isn’t always the case. Some women intentionally choose men who will crush their hearts. Even though many men object and argue that this is a higher percentage, it still only accounts for a small portion of all women worldwide.
Some people go after the jerks, but it’s because they believe they’ll just not be able to do better. These men are all some people believe they are entitled to. Others have lived their entire lives in hazardous settings. They’re aware of the situation but the mistreatment and torture are viewed as love for them.
Many ladies were unaware that the individual was wrong until it was too late. Before you even meet a narcissist, they may appear to be quite attractive considering they put so much work into their looks. Other women may have fallen in love, moved in, or given birth before discovering they were being abused. Isolation from friends occurs during the honeymoon period, making it difficult to leave once the abuse begins, which is why it takes an average of seven attempts to flee before she finally leaves.
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Nice Guys Are Uninteresting
People get into the trap of thinking that being nice is enough and that they lack personality. Have you ever gone on a date with a completely uninteresting guy? Confident, assertive men appeal to women (not overbearing or controlling).
Some women are self-sufficient, but they too need a co-captain who is as assured. Predictability can become tedious. Don’t go overboard, but be more active.
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Women are looking for a project.
A gentleman does not require taming. Women enjoy repairing them. He’s already doing well at home. He is neither harsh nor intense. Even though women claim that chaotic personalities aren’t what they want in a man, they are. Look into the past.
When confronted with a “bad boy,” a woman relishes the task of taming him. His ego is both seductive and vexing. If she could do it, he’d have to come to earth. Every time, we’re going to win.
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Women are drawn to risk
Ladies avoid solid and complacent men since they are risky to date, therefore they go along with cash * less. They take the ride instead of sprinting for the hills. Ladies know they’re horrible for us, and we know they’ll never treat us the manner we deserve. Biology, oh my!
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Men
5 Ways to Get What You Want from a Woman in a Relationship
Five tips to help you get what you want from a woman in a relationship and strengthen the bond between the two of you.
Relationships between men and women can be tricky at times, especially when you start to want something that your partner isn’t prepared to give you yet. In order to get what you want from a woman in a relationship, it’s important to carefully evaluate what your goal is, as well as what she wants from the relationship itself. Here are five tips to help you get what you want from a woman in a relationship and strengthen the bond between the two of you.
1. Communicate
Relationships go better when partners can discuss issues with one another. Listening is important as well, and sending texts or e-mails that are unduly aggressive will just push your partner away. Before you put your relationship at risk, think about whether you’re really willing to give up on it.
Nobody wants gifts if they come with an ultimatum attached. If your love isn’t strong enough to avoid throwing out demands, maybe it isn’t love at all—or maybe you should start looking for somebody else who would be willing to provide what you want without angering them or making them feel attacked.
2. Find Your Sweet Spot
Pick 3-4 things that are very important to you. For example, she might value loyalty over romance and spontaneity over consistency. So if you really want her love, that doesn’t mean trying to give her gifts on every holiday or call her every morning before work.
Find out what makes her tick by asking these questions: What can I do for you? How can I be of service? It may sound selfish, but when it comes down to it, if you want something from someone, you need to be clear about what that is and find your own sweet spot. She won’t read your mind.
3. Be Assertive
People are unlikely to gift you with what you want if they aren’t sure what it is. Instead of being wishy-washy, it’s essential that you clarify your needs and desires when you’re in a relationship.
Whether it’s scheduling time together or asking for something specific, don’t be afraid to get your point across assertively. It doesn’t mean that your partner will always give you what you want. But at least she’ll know where you stand!
4. Discipline and Consistent
If you’re not disciplined and consistent, you won’t get what you want. It’s as simple as that. A woman who wants to keep you around will be happy to respond when she sees (and feels) consistency on your part.
The moment there is inconsistency, however, is the moment she begins to lose respect for you and wonder if she can trust what you say. So, make sure you show up prepared and know exactly what it is that you want; otherwise, all of your discipline and consistency will go right out of the window!
5. Relax, Enjoy the Ride, and Embrace Change
It’s easy to overreact and get upset when you feel like you’re not getting what you want from your partner. In some cases, it could be that she isn’t doing enough. But don’t make assumptions; instead, ask her straight up. Most of us would rather hear the truth directly than have someone pout or accuse us of ignoring them.
If it turns out she isn’t putting enough effort into something important (like sex), talk about how to make it better for both of you. And if she really is trying but just needs a reminder every now and then, don’t hesitate. Give her an early warning sign so she can start preparing for your next request, before you even ask!
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3 Tips on to How Get What You Want from a Man in a Relationship
Meanwhile, we previously published an article on 3 Tips on How to Get What You Want from a Man in a Relationship
he classic advice many women get when they ask how to get what they want from their man in a relationship is just tell him. But this isn’t always the most effective or fulfilling way to go about it. Especially if you feel that he doesn’t always listen or give you the attention you deserve.
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Men
3 Tips on How to Get What You Want from a Man in a Relationship
These three tips on how to get what you want from a man in a relationship will help you get what you want out of your relationship without seeming like a nag!
The classic advice many women get when they ask how to get what they want from their man in a relationship is just tell him. But this isn’t always the most effective or fulfilling way to go about it. Especially if you feel that he doesn’t always listen or give you the attention you deserve. These three tips on how to get what you want from a man in a relationship will help you get what you want out of your relationship without seeming like a nag!
1. Focus on Yourself
To get what you want out of your relationship, it’s important to be mindful of what you’re giving and how that makes you feel. Make sure that you’re prioritizing your own needs first. If you feel like he’s not pulling his weight or that he’s not doing enough, then use your words and talk about it openly with him (not with other people).
There may be times when he gets wrapped up in work or something else and simply forgets to show affection; if that happens just go find him and remind him! Then make it a point for him not to have another opportunity for forgetting again.
It will also help you build trust with each other because you’ll know that he’ll come through for you. The more attention and affection you give yourself, the more attention and affection he’ll give back to you. It’s really as simple as that!
2. Don’t be Afraid to Ask for What You Want
No one is going to know what you want unless you tell them. Whether it’s something small like buying your partner a gift, or something bigger like planning an anniversary trip with him, don’t be afraid to go out of your way (or his) and ask for what you want.
If he loves you, he’ll be thrilled that you made time in your life just for him! There are few things more special than knowing someone did something especially for us. It shows they care enough about us to take time out of their day to make our lives better. And if he doesn’t do what you ask?
It might be worth asking yourself why you want whatever it is so badly. Is it really worth all that effort? Or would you rather have a man who loves and respects you enough not to feel guilty about spending some extra money on making your life better?
3. Accept Responsibility for Your Actions
In any relationship, we sometimes do things that are hurtful and disrespectful. We argue, make careless remarks or engage in actions that may result in our partner feeling uncomfortable or disrespected. If you want your man to listen to you, it’s up to you take responsibility for what you say and do.
If he hurts your feelings or does something that bothers you, tell him immediately. It’s better that way than making him guess why his gift isn’t reciprocated with words or actions of love.
For example, if he brings home flowers but you don’t seem happy about them, tell him how they make you feel instead of turning away and saying nothing. He won’t be able to read your mind; it will be easier for him to correct himself if you communicate directly and honestly.
A willingness to accept responsibility for your own actions is one of the most important qualities a woman can have. Especially when she wants her man to respect her and treat her well.
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True Love: The Values of Friendship and Family in a Relationship
Meanwhile, we previously published an article on true love: the values of friendship and family in a relationship
What factors contribute to long-term relationships? Many people believe that romance is the key to true love, and while physical attraction is certainly important, the most important aspect of any relationship is the friends and family with whom you share it.
Men
Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction: What to do
What are premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction (ED)?
Causes of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction
If you climax too soon, revel in the fact that your penis may detect pleasure within your partner to climax. All you have to do now is work on your control. Get to know your penis. Learn to recognize when you’re about to climax, and when you do, pull out of her sweetness and switch sex positions to extend your hardness.
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Masturbation
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